Tuesday, March 12, 2013

What do you pray for?

Prayer is such a loaded topic in the Christian world.  It is an indicator of who we are and where we are with God.  The issue isn’t so much how, when or how often we pray, but WHAT we pray for.  WHAT we pray for is really a matter of the heart. 

It is assumed that all Christians pray, but even this assumption is not a very safe one to make.  Unfortunately, many people who call themselves Christians simply do not pray at all and some pray prayers that are quite misguided. 

Here are some of those misguided prayers:
  • Get out of a jam prayers – We have no desire to obey God or live lives His way.  We just want to avoid the consequences for our sinful choices.
  • Prayers to mask disobedience – Sometimes we pray in such a way to divert attention from the basic and straightforward obedience God is calling us to.   
  • Fancy word prayers – There are times when we think using fancy words or repeating certain phrases will merit God’s attention more when all He really wants is our heart.
  • Prayers boasting about how much God owes us – These kinds of prayers are really boasts about all the good things we have done in order to somehow make a deal with God and remind Him how much He owes us.
  • Stalling prayers – Sometimes we use prayer as an excuse for inaction. 
Let’s be honest . . . All of us have prayed prayers like that at one time or another.  However, as we grow in our relationship with Jesus our understanding of prayer changes and our attitude about what prayer is even about changes.

We instead become people who pray not in misguided ways and not just to bombard God with our to-do lists.  We become people instead who pray for our heart to be merged with God’s heart and for our mind to be conformed to His mind.  Indeed, while we still make requests to God for personal needs, we also find that our prayers become more focused on the needs of others than they do on our own. 

At what point did your prayer life begin making this transition from misguided to more mature? 



What lessons did you have to learn along the way to make this move?



What lessons is God teaching you now that will move you further down the road in your walk with Him?

What do you pray for?